Apr 182014
Cara Sultra Beginners Bondage Kit

Packaging on the Cara Sultra Beginners Bondage Kit

I was contacted by Cara Sultra and asked if I would review an item from one of her new range of sex toys and bondage gear and she sent me the beginners bondage kit to review, it arrived in some super discrete packaging.

On the box is a picture of a blonde model using some of the items that are inside the box and on the back is a picture of Cara looking pretty stunning in black white and red.


The beginners bondage kit includes 8 different bondage items, which individually are great items but when used together can lead to an amazing night and a fantastic introduction to the world of bondage. These 8 items are

  • Wrist Cuffs
  • Ankle Cuffs
  • Collar and attachable leash
  • Blindfold
  • Breathable Ball Gag
  • Bondage Rope
  • Flogger

The wrist and ankle cuffs are pretty are the same, they are leather effect and fur-lined, they are linked together with a silver chain which clips and unclips easily from each other. When worn they feel very secure but the fur lining makes them feel comfortable, the clips mean that the chains are easy to unfasten in a hurry should your ‘sub’ suddenly have a change of heart and need a fast exit.


The Slave Collar is of a reasonable thickness, it has a buckle fastening and is also fur-lined, the collar is thick enough for you to know that you are wearing it, it does limit your movements slightly but not in such a way that it is uncomfortable. The buckle is easy to fasten and has a number of different holes meaning that it is adjustable dependent on how tight you like it and how thick your neck is.


On the front of the slave collar is a D Ring which can be used to attach the leash which is included in the kit, the leash is not amazing quality compared the rest of the kit, but it is good enough to play with in the bedroom, after all you might be taking your ‘pet’ for a walk, but this ‘pet’ should know to be well-behaved. You could also use this to clip the wrist cuffs to as the clips on them mean that you can run the chain through the D ring when playing.



The Blindfold is lovely and comfortable to wear, it is shaped to ensure that your ‘sub’ can’t see what you have planned, it’s not to tight but stays put and it has the same lovely fur lining that the collar and wrist/ankle cuffs have. I have to say that this is my favourite part of the kit.


The Breathable Ball Gag is quite comfortable to wear, the ball is a good size, not so big that it makes your jaw ache but big enough for you to wrap your teeth and mouth around it, the holes in it make it breathable. The fasten for it is a buckle which is easy to adjust to the tightness that you need to ensure that your ‘sub’ keeps the noise down.

When we tried the gag out I found this to be as good as other gags that I have tried and the strap that goes through the ball is comfortable on the sides of your mouths, some I have tried have made my mouth pretty sore, this one doesn’t do this, this one is good to wear. All gags make you drool though, there is nothing elegant about wearing a gag.


The bondage rope is soft and strong and long, there are endless amounts of things that you can do with rope, all you need is enough of it and a good amount of imagination, if you are struggling then I suggest that you google shibari. It comes in a bundle that you will never be able to get it back into no matter how hard you try or how good you are at doing it, this is why I haven’t taken a picture of it.

And finally the flogger, this is a pretty basic flogger, the length of the falls is good, meaning that they feel nice and soft when they are stroked against your body, the handle is a good length meaning that you can get a good grip on it when you are using it and it has a metal hanging loop so you can hang it up when it is not been used. The flogger is pretty light and therefore it isn’t a painful flogger when it is being used for spanking, you do get a little bit of a sting but nothing that is going to leave a mark or a bruise, you might have a red stingy bottom for a little while but it won’t stay. This makes it perfect for anyone new to this kind of play.


So overall what did I think of the Cara Sultra beginners Bondage kit? Honestly I was very very impressed, I have seen a lot of these beginners bondage kits on various sites and in stores but I have never seen one that is the same quality as this. The quality of all of the different items in the kit really is outstanding, the look and feel of each item is perfect for a set like this, they all look the part and the fur lining means that even though they look pretty mean, they are comfortable and easy to use without feeling intimidated by it if you are a complete beginner. I really can’t recommend this set enough for beginners and even experienced users, it really is that good.

Retailers/Stockists can contact Cara here




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Mar 142014

The Icicles No. 18 Glass dildo was sent to me to review by TwistedMiss.co.uk, TwistedMiss.co.uk have been sponsoring this site for a little while now but as yet I haven’t reviewed anything for them, so when I was asked to review this I jumped at the chance, especially as Glass is simply my favourite material when it comes to sex toys.

The Glass Dildo was posted out to me in some lovely discrete packaging which also had plenty of protection for something that is made from glass. Inside the protective packaging the Icicles No. 18 was packaged in a lovely display box which shows off the beautiful glass perfectly.

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No. 18 – The Beautiful Packaging

Inside the box the Icicles No. 18 Glass dildo is protected in some perfectly shaped foam packaging which prevents if from been able to move around during transit and therefore stops it from getting damaged.

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No. 18 – Protective Packaging

The Icicles No. 18 is made from top quality glass which is designed not to shatter or break when used even if it has been used with some force, I have dropped one of these onto concrete in the past and it hasn’t even chipped. 

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No. 18 – Image from the box


The Icicles No. 18 is able to withstand changes in temperature meaning that you can warm up the dildo in warm water to body temperature or beyond if you wish or if you want to cool things down you can pop it in the fridge or  even in the freezer if you dare. Personally I prefer the glass to be body temperature I am not a big fan of cold sex toys, but if you are then the glass that this is made of will hold its temperature for some time after it has been cooled making it perfect for temperature play.

 The Icicles No. 18 is shaped to massage the g-spot perfectly when it is being used the large bulbous head and the curve with those bumps that just feel amazing when it is being used meaning that whether playing alone or with a partner you are sure to have fun.

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No. 18 – The Head


I can’t tell you just how good the Icicles No.18 dildo feels, having tested a fair few glass dildo’s over the years this has to be one of my favourite ones so far, the size and shape of it is just perfect and the bumps really are something that needs to be felt to be believed. 

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No.18 – Lovely Bumps

Glass Dildos are hypoallergenic, they can be washed in a dishwasher, boiled or cleaned in the sink with normal soap and water, they can be used with any lubricant and are safer than you might expect due to them been made from top quality safety glass. On top of all of that they feel amazing and look great to. This one even has a flower in the base of the dildo which looks great and the amazing bumps that I talked about are blue, this isn’t something that you can have with any other material.

Icicles No. 18

Icicles No. 18 – Flower in base

Glass dildo’s are solid so you do need to be careful when using them on a partner as it is easy to be rougher than you realise and leave your partner feeling sore the next day. This is something that you need to be aware of when deciding to purchase glass.

Overall I loved the Icicles No. 18 glass Dildo by Pipedream from TwistedMiss.co.uk, the shape and size of this dildo suited my body perfectly and that combined with my partners expertise meant that it felt simply divine. I can’t possibly recommend this glass dildo enough, if you haven’t tried glass then this should be the one that you try first.

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Mar 122014
Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

I was contacted by Uberkinky and asked if I would review the Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps for them and of course I agreed.

Its has been a while since I reviewed any nipple clamps and I haven’t tried any since I decided to take out my piercings so I was excited to try something new and to see what it would look like.

I also have a  love of slave collars and think that good quality collars are something that you can never have to many of.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

The Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps was posted out to me as always in some super discrete packaging and it arrived within a couple of days of me agreeing to review it. No complaints from me there.

The Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps set comes packaged in some very cool packaging, I like that they chose black with a nice serif font which stands out in its white against the background. On the rear of the box is a picture of a mannequin modelling the clamp and collar set.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

I don’t think that I have quite the same look when I tried to model the Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps  though:-

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

My nipples are slightly less plastic looking and more fleshy, which in my opinion should be seen as an improvement.

Anyway on with the review.

The collar is leather, in my opinion all slave collars should either be leather or metal, and they should be real leather at that none of this pleather (plastic leather) unless of course your beliefs mean that you can’t have real leather.

The fasten on the reverse has a leather backing to it so that the buckle doesn’t sit directly on your neck when you are wearing it, this means that it won’t nip you when you move around.

Unlike some other slave collars on the market this is not a lockable collar.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

There are some small metal studs on the inside of the leather collar which will touch your skin, it doesn’t say on the packaging anywhere if this is nickel free or not so if you have a nickel allergy like me then you wouldn’t want to wear this for long periods of time just in case you have a reaction to it.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

On the front of the collar attached to a metal D Ring is the metal chain which has 2 adjustable nipple clamps attached to the end of it.

The nipple clamps are fully adjustable meaning that you can have them as loose as you like or as tight as you dare. I personally don’t like clamps too tight but I know some people love it, these are good strong clamps and can be very painful when they are fully tight, or just look good when they are looser, be careful not to have them to loose though as they need to be tight enough to stay put.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Adjustable Clamps

I was a little upset that the metal chain with the clamps on can’t be un-clipped from the collar. This means that it can’t be used as two separate items. Personally I would have preferred a clip attaching the chain to the collar.

The chain is very firmly attached and you can be quite rough with it without worrying that you might damage it the leather work on the collar is excellent and the whole collar feels strong, sturdy and even though it is quite a wide collar it is comfortable to wear, as with all leather when new it is slightly stiff but with more use and more wear it will soften.

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

The width of the collar does mean that your movements are limited when you are wearing it, to me this adds something to the set, I really like that it limits movement, preventing you from been able to look down fully or move as freely as you might normally without the need for any other restraints. The chain when attached to the nipples firmly provides an excellent way to move your partner around, just a little tug and they are sure to follow, I know that I did when we tried it out.

Overall I really liked Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps set, I think that the packaging and branding really suits the type of toy that it is. The leather is excellent quality with a simple buckle making it easy to put on and take off.

I wasn’t keen in the metal studs on the inside of the collar purely because I don’t know exactly what the material is that these studs are made from. The adjustment on the clamps is nice and easy to use and although my nipples didn’t initially want to play once they were attached they are pretty secure. The only real negative that I have is that you can’t remove the chain from the collar it would be nice to be able to use the collar with other things or maybe just the clamps on their own. 

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

Master Series Coveted Collar with Nipple Clamps

I would recommend this set for anyone wanting to add a little extra to their BDSM toy box, even experienced players will get something from these as the clamps can be pretty harsh when allowed to fully tighten, but for anyone new to this I would advise that you check out Uberkinky’s beginners guide to nipple clamps for some good advice before you play.

Mar 032014

Give it Up! Packaging

I was sent the Give it Up! g-spot vibrator for review by the lovely people over at California Exotics Novelties, it comes packaged in a white box with a clear picture of the toy on the front and some information about how it works on the back, inside the box the g-spot vibrator is wrapped in a plastic wrap to protect it in transit and instructions of how the vibrator works.

Give it Up!

The Give it Up! takes 2 aaa batteries which fit into the base of the toy, the handle un-screws and the batteries are easy to insert, there is even a little diagram on the inside of the battery compartment to help you get the batteries the right way round (it’s always nice when you don’t have to guess) once the batteries are in just screw the handle back on and you are ready to go.

Give it Up!

It has a single button operation making it super easy to use, the button lights up and flashes differently depending on which setting it is on. To turn it on just press the button on the base, keep pressing it as you go through the 10 different settings which include 3 different speeds and various patterns, to turn it off hold down the button on the Give it Up! for a couple of seconds and it will fall silent.

Speaking of noise the Give it Up! is a relatively quiet vibrator making no more noise than the average electric toothbrush even when it is on full power meaning that this is the perfect toy for anyone who is sharing a house as you should be able to work out from the video of the Give it Up! above.

The Give it Up! G-Spot Vibrator is made from what feels and looks like excellent quality silicone which doesn’t have any nasty smell to it, it  feels very smooth and soft to the touch and has  no overly visible seam which could feel uncomfortable when it has been used. The Give it Up! has this lovely shape with a bulbous head which centres all of the vibrations onto the g-spot when it is been used and lots of bumps and ridges to add to the sensation meaning that even when it isn’t turned on it makes a damned good dildo. The vibrator is quite solid though not flexible so if you are using it on your partner you should be aware of this and not go to rough.

Give it Up!

This is a waterproof sex toy so if you want to use the Give it Up! in the bath or the shower you can do so without worrying about it getting damaged, personally it’s not my thing but I know that some people love a nice relaxing bath with their favourite vibe, it also means that cleaning it is super easy you can simply submerge it in the washing up bowl (probably not when you are doing the washing up) and clean it with warm soapy water as this has so many bumps and grooves giving the Give it Up! a really good clean is essential to prevent any bacteria build up in the little ridges, I would always recommend that you use a good quality sex toy cleaner after you have washed it to make sure that you have a lovely clean and germ free toy ready to use whenever you are.

Give it Up!

I really like the size of the Give it Up! a lot I found that it was just right for me, not to big or small, and the shape really seemed to work well with my body making this a really good toy for me, the vibrations even when on low felt nice and when on high totally rocked my world, I didn’t think too much of the patterns but if I am completely honest I never do, the patterns are the usually pulses and escalations that you might get with any vibrator and although they don’t do to much for me if you like to take your time or if you like to tease your partner they will do both of these things.

As this is a silicone sex toy you should only use it with a waterbased lubricant and you should store is separately to your other silicone sex toys to prevent any chance of it becoming damaged if the silicone where to react with any other silicone and melt, there is nothing worse than going to get your favourite sex toy out of the box and it been a different shape to what it should be or even worse a melted pile of goop.

Give it Up!

Overall I really liked the Give it Up! vibrator, I liked the shape, the size, how quiet it is, how easy it is to use and the nice simple packaging, I would say that this is a good quality entry-level g-spot vibrator which can be enjoyed on your own or equally well with a partner, it looks good even if it is PINK! like such a lot of other toys, the silicone is good and I enjoyed giving a go. 




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Feb 182014

Since my last post I have continued to try to use the Kegal8 everyday, but there have been a couple of days that I have missed due to been poorly and been super busy, it does advise that for best results you should try to use it at least once a day, twice if you can, but if you can’t then not to double up in one session as it can overwork the muscles.

I have managed to move onto the more intense 4th setting and increase the power from 20mA which was all I could manage when I started to 35mA this feels like it is working the muscles much harder, I have also started to use the water based kegal8 lubricant that was sent to me with the Kegal8 everytime I use it as this not only helps with inserting the probe it improves the connection and helps the Kegal8 become more effective.

I have also tried the skin probes, one of the settings that I have tried requires two skin probes to be attached to the ankle and the internal probe to be used at the same time for it to be most effective. The pads are extremely sticky and adhere to the skin very well, the sensation you get when they are turned on is like a string twitch or if you have it quite high like you are being flicked really quickly. It does say that you should avoid putting the current up to high on the skin pads as this could cause burns.

So have I felt any difference since I started that is what most people will be interested in finding out, well nothing huge, it is still really early days, I am pleased that I have been able to work up through the settings as I feel that this shows that there has been a slight improvement, my husband swears that he can feel a difference during sex but I can’t honestly say that I can feel any difference. When I am at the gym however I am not feeling the need to go to the loo quite as often which is a huge result for me, I am managing a full hour of my 2 hour workout without having to have a toilet break now which is just amazing and hopefully with more use it will get to the point where I can complete my workout without having to stop at all.

So 2 weeks on I am feeling positive, I think that there has been a slight improvement and that with continued use I will see a real difference.

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Feb 172014
Feb 052014

Well I have been using the kegal8 for a week now, and have moved through a few of the settings.

I have to say that I haven’t really noticed any difference as yet to things but I know that these things are slow and that it is normal for it to take as much as 12 weeks before you see any real improvement, just think about going to the gym or loosing weight and how long it takes before you notice a difference, nothing is instant.

I have used setting 1 which is the sensitivity test, setting 2 which is the advanced sensitivity test and I am now using setting 3 which is still feeling a little challenging when I use it, I am hoping to be able to move through all of the settings gradually and that as I do I will start to feel/notice a difference in the way that the muscles feel. I am also going to try using the skin pads alongside the probe once I have managed to move onto the more advanced settings.

I still feel very positive about things, I can really feel the Kegal8 making my muscles work when it is turned on, its a strange sensation I wouldn’t say that it felt nice but its not a bad feeling either, afterwards I can tell that I have been using the muscles and the 1st time I used the 3rd setting it even had a little bit of an ache. I am no longer getting this which is starting to make me feel like I need to move on to the next setting, maybe in a day or two I will.

The settings last for a variable amount of time, the 1st is 30mins, the 2nd I think was an hour and the 3rd is 45mins, and you are advised to use it twice a day, I am unable to do it twice a day but I have been using it every day consistently, and although I know results will be quicker if used twice I also know that once a day is better than not at all and I am prepared for it to take longer if necessary.

I will post another update and maybe even get some pictures taken next week. Int he mean time if you want to see what it looks like check out the Kegal8 website



Jan 272014

SAM_3475I was contacted by Uberkinky and asked if I would review this Kink Industries Intense Impact Cane for them, I of course agreed, canes are one of my absolute favourite things for spanking and caning play, it is just so much more intense than other forms of spanking play and the marks that it leaves are so much more striking, sends me into a really special headspace.

The Intense Impact Cane is much shorter than other canes that I have tried and it is also tapered to be thinner at the business end and thicker at the handle end, this makes it a much more painful cane than others that I have tried. It is also much less flexible than others that we have tried and this also makes it more powerful without the person using it having to put anymore effort in than normal.


The handle on this one is red but it is also available in black, the handle has bumps in it and is textured to help you get a really good grip it also has a wrist strap which doubles as a hanging strap for storage, I can’t tell you how many of these things I have hanging on   in my wardrobe now but it is quite a few, these hanging loops are invaluable for storage as they also prevent them from getting damaged  if they are lent against something or shoved in the back of a cupboard. In my mind just having a hanging strap gives the makers some major brownie points.


This cane is quite light as it is made from a plastic which doesn’t have very much weight to it, it doesn’t need any weight to it though to be painful the shape and length of it makes it a much more painful toy than a more flexible bamboo cane. This is definitely not a spanking toy that should be used by beginners and in my opinion it should only be used if you have complete trust in the person using it.


Overall I think that this is a serious cane that is not for the lighthearted, if you get one of these then you mean business. The clue really is in the name kink Industies Serious Impact Cane, this really can give some good stripes and if done right you can have some really lovely patterns from it, which is the point right? I love it, but I love a caning, if you are new to spanking then I wouldn’t buy this but if you are not new to it and you are looking for something serious to play with then I can’t recommend this highly enough.


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